"and gay people can have kids. granted they need sperm banks or surrogates. they could also be our answer to all the kids in foster care."
They cannot offer the family life that a Man and woman can, which is what our government needs and wants. You are right about it helping them make better choices, but a large reason of why (Personal opinion coming on, dunno much about gay research I will look into it if this goes further) homosexuals are the way they are rather than the norm of heterosexual is because the are non-conformists at heart. Mind you some come to it from traumatic events or instances in their childhood, or teen years. Some just want to be gay. But the truth being, why should we amend what is known to be good for our country, for something that may be catastrophic for it. All because some of our citizens feel that they arn't being given abnormal rights.
The traditional family life is the reason for having Male-female relationships. To say that we should allow foster kids, children already stricken with a terrible event of being alone in the world without parrents, to fall in the hands of unstable and insecure people is wrong. The one thing we know, regardless of whether religion or science is involved, the natural order of mating is Male-female. We only hurt our contries growth by promoting homosexuality, we need native born americans.
But ultimately, we cannot allow same sex marriages for these reasons:
*They themselves cannot procreate
*They have a selfish need to force their view of their sexuality upon others. (Otherwise, why should they want to get 'Married') Why not call it 'United' or 'Together'.
*Harmful for any children they may inheirit
The Homosexual Orientation of Parents Harms Their Children (Read the references, therein lies the truth)
If we allow a man and a man to marry, or a woman and a woman to marry, where do we draw the line. What if a man wants to marry his dog next? What if a man was to marry his daughter? What if a man wants to marry a 14 year old? Moral decline drops low when we allow these types of occurances. You can't please everyone.
Let homosexuals be homosexuals, and let them be proud or whatever, but for fucksake, do we not hold them accountable for forcing Americans to try to accept them? They are attacking our constitution, it isn't just about them. Make a tear in the constitution, and it will rip much larger.