Originally Posted by Realist1

And I'd recommend they have their "tubes" cut too... We don't want them to ever have to bear that fear again.

Originally Posted by ricechickie

Absolutely. IF they fear and loathe the thought of EVER having a baby. However, sometimes the fear and dread come from really, really, bad timing.

Originally Posted by oceanbreeze

That's life, baby.

Originally Posted by PaleRider

Follow your own link, it is right there. You didn't even bother to see what the study was about, who did it, the methodology, or the results did you? You just grabbed a statement by a pro choice group and posted it as if it were the truth.
the study was in my files for quite a while now. I haven't read the whole thing in a bit. but last I checked mentally ill, unemployed, and young women (for non-abortion reasons) try to kill themselves more. and MALES succeed more often.


Of course she did. I have been asking you for months for some credible evidence that unborns at any stage are not human beings. You have not been able to do it. Unfortunately for you, your opinion doesn't represent credible evidence.

Use your brain wolf. It isn't people like me who cause suicides. It is people like you. People who go on and on about how unborns aren't human beings, about how they are just insignifigant clumps of cells, about how abortion is the right choice for some people. So women who are looking for something listen to you and act on your advice in the light of day. Then night comes and they know inside that it was all a lie. They know that they have killed their child for no better reason than convenience and they know that they are going to have to live with it for the rest of their lives.

People like me aren't lying to anyone wolf. I don't need to lie because the facts support my side of the argument. People who act on lies and only learn after the fact that they have indeed been lied to are the ones who suffer emotional consequences. People who walk into a situation with their eyes wide open and act knowing the facts rarely suffer residual emotional distress. It is people like you who are to blame wolf. You lie and smile and tell them that it is for the best but in the night, when you aren't around to perpetuate the lie, they know the truth and it tears them apart.

Originally Posted by wolf_22

people who make women feel bad about abortions are the ones who hurt these ladies. not people like me who support their choices and reproductive rights.

Originally Posted by ricechickie

That's true. Your point?

Originally Posted by oceanbreeze

When is there ever a perfect time to have a child?
When you're established in your career?
After you bought a house?
After you have enough in savings?
Really, when is the timing ever right to have a child?
There is no right or wrong time to have a child.

Originally Posted by Realist1

Oh yeah,,,that's a major concern of mine. We really should worry over the "feelings" of Women that slaughter their unborn kids...I recommend sterilization for them to help ease their pain.

No more worrys then. Especially for any future "Fears" they might of had.

Originally Posted by ricechickie

When is the perfect time to have a child?
When you've just broken up with the father?
When you're already on welfare?
When you're fourteen?
When you're hooked on drugs?
Of course, there is never a right or wrong time to have a child, but each person should be able to make the decision of whether a child will truly be loved and welcome in their lives.