They can have their marriage to themselves as soon as there are no legal benefits of being married, I say. Gay couples carry just as much of a load as straight couples do, so it's really just ridiculous that married straight couples get benefits that gay couples simply aren't allowed to get, or apparently even have if they've already gotten them elsewhere.

Bah, right-wing nuts. Stigmatize abortion, and do your best to make things harder for the largest group of people willing to adopt. Sounds like a good idea.