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Originally Posted by J04miller
Don't get me wrong. I'm not just putting it on the women. This should be on the minds of men and women. Unfortunately, a lot of men seem to think this isn't their problem.
In the end, it becomes the problem of the child. A lot of these "sperm donors" don't want anything to do with the kid, and the mom is left to deal with a child which is WAY more taxing than getting yourself some damn birth control.
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It is unfair, but the burden will always be on the women. They are the ones who get pregnant, not men. And you can't force them to care about the results of their actions. Again, idealistically I agree with you, but the reality of the situation is that life is unfair on this matter.
However, as for the financial matter, I am all for hitting the fathers up and throwing their deadbeat asses in jail if they don't pay.