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Old 05-12-2008, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Dom1 View Post
It was strange pussy, that is the only need that needs to be filled by most cheating husbands.

Do you still think the wives are to blame in this situation? Are they really at fault more so than the husbands or the mistresses?
I think it's more complicated than pointing the finger at one person and saying "they're to blame".

But obviously the men were vulnerable as were the women, and apparently they saw something in the other they appreciated and acted on it.

Now...if the home life was all that, why would they have been tempted to stray? I'm not saying it's the wife's fault for not "keeping her man happy", but it's the coupleship that apparently wasn't all it could be. And both the wife and husband have a part in allowing the coupleship to disintegrate to the point of vulnerability.
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