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Old 05-12-2008, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by oceanbreeze View Post
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My neighbor and I lived in GA and her husband went ahead to TX to set up house for the family. The wife stayed behind while the kids finished school. The husband found himself a mistress. The wife was clueless, she moved to TX. BTW: TX has some screwed up child custody laws. Anyway, the wife was devasted as were the kids. They ended up getting divorced and he married the mistress. Now, if I were a mistress I would always think in the back in my mind "if he cheated on her with me, who is he cheating with now?" Anyway, I am not a happy camper because I was hoping to spend time with my friend and her her kids and can't because her A$$HOLE ex has the kids that weekend so if we want to see the kids we have to spend time with A$$HOLE and the new wife. HOME WRECKER.
I don't disagree with most of what you are saying, but my point is, that the husband is the one responsible for how his actions affect his family, not the mistress. Sure in the grand scheme of things she would be smart not to get involved for exactly the reason you stated. If he cheated once, he could again. I am tired of the women being labeled the whores and homewreckers, when he is the one with the home/family.
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