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Originally Posted by FreedomForWho
Just noticed this, sorry. I have had girlfriends in which our relationship could no longer continue because of the trauma they had dealt with in their child years. I will give you this, everyone reacts differently. But the greater majority are effected strongly by it, though it does take courage and strength for them to overcome to event.
I meant think about it man, when you are a kid, you put faith in people. As a child, your development is key, and anything you learn builds your character as an adult. Many rape and molestation victims never think about sex the same way, many can never feel secure with a member of the gender they were abused by. I could pull the statistics, but I'm sure you can agree with these things.
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you're right, a child is forming his impression of the world at an exhilarated rate. But it is not the world which will cause him trauma, only having it crash down on him when he finds out how sick it was. the thing you have to understand, is that it feels good to be molested. its sick, but it is true. so they're of course going to suffer when they find out their source of pleasure is instead a source of embarrassment. on an island with only a dad and his daughter, she'll never feel the effects of any trauma were he to molest her.