I know I'm about to sound like a total pedophile, but there is a lot of statistical evidence to show that child molestation or rape do not have a direct correlation with, as you put it, torment or rather trauma. It is, according to something called the Rand Report, a direct result of negative social stimuli applied to the child. Often children, unlike shown on TV, do not react as negatively about molestation until they're informed of its social implications and societies moral attitudes. It is at this time where the person starts to experience Trauma. Unfortunately, much of human history involves a lot of rape and molestation of our own children, one could take it to a sick degree and even suggest its "human nature". But I wouldn't.
The Rand report is most frightening because of its thoroughness and scope.