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36shadow · #11 (**permalink**) 02-05-2008, 12:15 AM

See now this is the kind of stuff that radical liberal idiology brings about in my book. All of this reason will children and send them to time out,oh I don't want to be the bad guy. My wife is about 7 years younger than me and when I was talking to her about correcting our 15 month old daughter I JUST ABOUT SHIT MY PANTS WHEN SHE UTTERED THOSE WORDS. I DON'T WANT TO BE THE BAD GUY!????????? I can not for the life of me figure out how correcting your child, teching them right from wrong by having a gentle heart but a firm hand makes you the bad guy. Kids only problem these days is all this fringen liberal crap infecting our society and coroding it at the core. Telling kids they have rights what kind of crap is that, adults and the authorities have an obligation to protect kids from abuse when parents don't or do. But dicipline and a good old fashion whoopen is not abuse. The only right my daughter has is to do what she is told it is not her job to worry about what is best for her that is her mom and I's job. I have turned quite a few kids behavior around some in my own extended family and people are amazed. I don't see why it is no great secret I only use simple basics that were used by most parents and on me for decades before all this liberal crap. I say something one time then I act EVERY TIME, I allow for mistakes because everyone is human, I show as much caring and compasion as I do dicipline (one with out the other is useless) I don't ask I tell them what to do and after they do it if they want to know why then I explain. Anything other than ok, yes sir, or alright etc. when told to do something or not to do something is talking back and is diciplined IMEDIATELY. At the same time when they need me for something or look like they need a hug or a good laugh or anything like that I drop what ever I'm doing RIGHT THEN and they get that attention. I don't need to setttt asidde quuuuality timeeeeeeee (what a joke). Every second of every day they are around is quality time and should not be penciled in. you see the pattern and many of you out there that grew up in the 80's and back know what I'm talking about. I have no more than taped my daughters hands and poped her diaper (because it makes a noise that sounds like it hurts but does not) she don't even feel anything but for now it works so hey great for me. I mean hey she is only 15 months old I'm a little strict not ruthless. My wife and in-laws think I'm being mean to her because I don't let anything slide when she is bad etc. but hey like I have pointed out to them. She runs them over and throws fits with them and don't listen to a DAMN THING THEY SAY. But she can be throwing a fits because they did not give her what she wanted and will not stop. I just walk into the room as soon as she sees me she stops and when I tell her to do something she does it. When she falls and hurts herself and everyone is reaching for her she pushes her way through until she gets to her dad (me) she don't stop crying till I kiss her boo boo and tell her it's ok. It is balance and kids are not given that anymore they are not taught respect at home or at school without respect their is no love and with out love their is no respect. I've had students in my class that where the acting out needed to be hancuffed at school type. Hell one paticular mom brought me her 15 year old son woooooooo attitude. He was big for his age and man what a mouth and attitude. I have a martial arts class and not of American bs type. She asked if I could help I said can you sign a lawyer written waver I have, she said yes so I said you bet. It took about a week and he ended up with some bruises and some swelling and I showed up at his house at night. Call him out in the yard when I herd he had done something at school that day. But all in all he learned to be a decent human being. No medication no councleing just good old fashion you give respect to get it you show caring and people will care back.