maybe it is kind of lame. but what about the hundreds of threads by others on posts on threads fighting with people from other forums. i think lady has put in at least 12 posts on that today that i have read. i dont care but lots of people post silly stuff including you.anyway if i accused somebody of soemthing i will say im sorry. lady i d ont rember you being part of smitty and i talking about my my bf. he said the guy would make a move just for a one night stand. he did not so thats what i defended. show why i need to say sorry and if i need to i will. i have alife footman,a very good one and a new bf.